Monday 6 April 2015

Yes you can

The moment you realized and decide that you are the single most determining factor as to whether or not you succeed or fail, only then will your life have a chance to improve..............,...,....................................
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What is the most important thing one should change for changing himself/ herself?

The answer is your imagination. What you imagine, you become ,
so if you want to change yourself, change your imagination .

I will tell you my friends story,  his name is ragav maheaswari , he is Pershuing b.tech with me in the same branch i.e mechanical engineering .

once he went to the nayi sadak for purchasing new book( delhities may know about nayi sadak), he spend 5-6 hours for purchasing book as the market of nayi sadak is so wast and big , so for identifying book and on barging he spend much time.

Personally saying , its a quite common action for a student who go there to purchase book and thats  not a big issue . The issue is what he did next.

He thinks that he is quite used to of that place and even then he has wasted his much precious hour in this, what about the first comer guy, he start thinking on that and consult this problem to his another friend and collectively they start spending time to find the solution .
After a long cudgel brain ,they think that purchasing a book is a difficulties and if it is a difficulty then we should provide a solution to it. They start a company who collect books direct from publisher and provide that book on normal rate to the students. Till now, their company grow exponentially and 7-8 people are working under their leadership.

What was the main thing which he do and other people don't?

The answer is he imagined.  He tried to imagine problem and find a solution and what other do? They purchase the book, do complains and rest all clear to them.

That's the power of imagination.

After listening his success story , I start making conversation with him on that issue, few points of our conversation:-

Ragav:-
Have you ever notice what is main  the difference between an achiever and  an unachiever.?

Me:- their hard work '( quite common answer')

Ragav:-
The real answer is their power of imagination and their  believe on themselves , while an achiever always think that he can do thing, ready to tackle difficulties and most importantly start believing in himself.

On the other hand unachiever always has excuses , not willing to break his comfort zone features and always has a fear.

Ragav:-
The next question arises what do they fear?

Me:- faillure

ragav:-
Correct,but not sufficient answer, They actually fear the unknown failure,what other will think , and they even fear success . as a result of this , many find themselves living as " lives of quiet desperation."

Me:- and???????

Ragav:-

And some great unachiever consciously allow past failure to determine their future. They unceasingly re-live their past attempts and failure. They think because it didn't work out then, it probably won't work out now.

Me:- so what's the last thing wanna to convey to me?

Ragav:- just dream because dream are formed in the imagination and power of imagination is unstoppable.

Don't go where the path may lead you, go where there is no path and leave a trail.

If you want more, then you must become more  and that's all....................

New version series

Not everything that is faced can be changed. But nothing can be changed until it is faced..........
Lewis mMandel


From my previous blog post " no plan, only action", there should be no doubt in anybody's mind  that I have just wasted my whole week I.e. 168 hours with the tarp of plans and plans. each day my mind comes with a new plan and my body is not ready to adopt that. May be its their fight,( fight of dil and dimaag), but by their action my future has to be suffered, so I called a secret meeting of both dil(heart) and dimaag(mind) and tried to convience them but my body or in fact my heart is not ready to put his laziness aside and even my mind is also not ready to participate in common minimum program.


I feel a need to talk to one of my best friend kshtiz , ( till now, I don't understand ,why our friend don't reply to your question directly? Firstly they make joke of you and then reply) he replied ":- look my friend, your mind is the master of your ship, he is incharge. He controls all the instrument of your body including your crew members in the engine room( dil). If your mind or captain on the bridge of ship decided to send orders to the engine room to turn the ship onto the rocks,the crew has to follow his order, they don't see where their captain is actually taking them all, they believe on him as in charge so, my dear friend,your mind is your in charge ,so just go with that and don't consider making plan as failure and most importantly , don't be a puppet of those guys who tell you to do this or that, make your own decision whether good or bad ,no matter but decision should be your. Its your life, so your rules should be applied to you.... Don't be spectacular of your own match 


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All achievement starts in the imagination before it is ever realized in the physical form.


Start working on the principle of " fake it,till you make it" and remember to have a can do spirit rather than can't do or making excuses like spirit and start not merely to get through life, start striving to get most from life".................


Such type of words can inspire any body but life is not a play of words, its all about struggle and struggle ...



Every day , a new fight has to be won to become successful .....



To be what you are , and to become what are capable of becoming , is the only end in life.


The desire For change is a sign of safety .................Morris Mandel

From now , my fight or infact my struggle start in bringing a new version of myself .


May be this is the end of the blog but actually it is the starting of new life.

                     

The end -
          is really the beginning........


Sunday 5 April 2015

Responding to life

दोस्तों आप सभी ने जो प्यार दिखाया मेरे ब्लॉग की तरफ उसके लिए मै हमेशा आपका आभारी रहूँगा।
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